Irene Bleiweiss
2005-10-20 02:28:59 UTC
I consider myself observant. I would not find this hostess' shower
favor offensive, but neither would I consider it especially thoughtful
of her Jewish guests. The purpose of a Christmas tree decoration is . .
. to hang it on a Christmas tree! So the hostess is being presumptive
in assuming that her Jewish guests will have any use for the gift. The
hostess also may not be aware of potential problems for Jewish parents.
For example, the parent may have explained to her children that they do
not have a Christmas tree because Christmas is not a Jewish holiday.
How will her kids react when she brings home a glass ball ornament?
This strikes me as a hostess who wants to find something plentiful,
inexpensive, but nice enough to use once a year. There are lots of
other gifts that fit those requirements and that can be used by all.
Avi wrote:
Specifically, a poster (presumably Christian) will be holding a baby
shower around Christmas time, and was considering giving away "Seasonal"
(but non-religious) party favors such as tree decoration balls. She
wondered whether Jewish guests at her party would be offended by this.
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favor offensive, but neither would I consider it especially thoughtful
of her Jewish guests. The purpose of a Christmas tree decoration is . .
. to hang it on a Christmas tree! So the hostess is being presumptive
in assuming that her Jewish guests will have any use for the gift. The
hostess also may not be aware of potential problems for Jewish parents.
For example, the parent may have explained to her children that they do
not have a Christmas tree because Christmas is not a Jewish holiday.
How will her kids react when she brings home a glass ball ornament?
This strikes me as a hostess who wants to find something plentiful,
inexpensive, but nice enough to use once a year. There are lots of
other gifts that fit those requirements and that can be used by all.
Avi wrote:
Specifically, a poster (presumably Christian) will be holding a baby
shower around Christmas time, and was considering giving away "Seasonal"
(but non-religious) party favors such as tree decoration balls. She
wondered whether Jewish guests at her party would be offended by this.
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